If you’re a parent and your marriage is on the rocks, you know how all consuming it is when you’re questioning your commitment. Being all-in is THE foundation of a thriving partnership. Unfortunately most partners who want to recommit make the mistake of waiting for their partners to make certain changes before they fully recommit.
The problem is- focusing on your partners choices puts *your* life on pause, inflames the problems between you & keeps you attached to the false belief that you can only make progress if your partner participates.
When you require your partner to change you miss the opportunity to develop emotional strength & resiliency. You continue depending on your external environment to provide your emotional wellbeing and you stay in a reactive marriage.
My approach is similar to marriage counselling- I help you understand disharmony, but we go much deeper into the nitty gritty of your mindset and strengthen your self leadership.
The greatest gift you can give your relationship is to become a boss at identifying and responding to your own needs. When the differences between you no longer limit your ability to get your needs met- acceptance grows and you experience a more authentic love. This is the work we do in my free mini course It Only Takes One.
Come join my free FB Community Marriage Talk for Parents where I do regular Masterclasses on all things personal power in your relationship.